Helping the less fortunate

This lent is about thinking of someone other than yourself.  Find a cause to give money to or do a service project with to help the less fortunate instead of being self-centered without considering anyone else before yourself.  Be altruistic to someone less fortunate than you.

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Mind games jealous women play

Is the threat real or a blown up personal insecurity?

Have you ever asked yourself can good love relationships fail? Does he actually have a history of infidelity or are the rumors of it getting you down? Does it really matter when the inevitable brash intruder challenges you by thinking I can take her place and he will let me? How convinced are you that your personal connection to your significant other is a sound one?

  • With a growing number of stalking and sexual crimes on the rise, how can we  prevent criminal intrusion from happening to us as a solid romantic couple?  If the problem isn’t about us, but the possible that we could look foolish that causes us to react to the mind games of crazy fans, why does it bother us so much that we ruminate on the idea that we could lose.  The greater your public persona, the increased attentiveness of the community that could burn you and try to reclaim your status as theirs. The greatest challenge to the preservation of true love is how effectively you discuss fears, concerns and solutions of reassuring promises that worst is over and not a real challenge for us. Dealing with the undesired impact of the inevitable intruder on our relationship is not about your mate but your insecurity about the strength of your relationship of love. Where there is room for doubt, rumors, suggestions, and crushes flourish and can reek havoc on your thoughts. Defensive people think and say stupid things because anger means something has happened already and anxiety means it hasn’t yet.   Anger means there is a history where this connection has done this to you before but anxiety means you are afraid it could happen again.  anger and anxiety play a big role in the number of revenge plotting schemes designed to restrict what is a believed threat.  Effective conflict management begins when we effectively communicate our insecurities to a reassuring significant other and a genuinely supportive personal friend.  A competitor revels in your insecurity  and tries to turn you against your chosen significant other by exasperating your belief that this idea can become a reality because it is truly possible. 

Until you ask yourself these questions, your insecurities will challenge the power of your love life to thrive and last. 

  1. Is it possible I could be replaced?
  2. Would he really choosing her over me right now?
  3. Is this a product of her mind, mine or his?
  4. Is she triggering a present insecurity or a previous one?
  5. Is this really a threat or a mind game designed to incite vengeful behavioral responses?

Is there a real problem or just an implied one

by the jealous suitor he overlooked to chose you as a mate?

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When Getting Angry isn’t Avoidable

  • Angry is caused when we feel FRUSTRATED AND DISCOURAGED by something we CANNOT SEE CHANGING THAT WE FEEL STRONGLY NEEDS TO. Angry is caused when we feel FRUSTRATED AND DISCOURAGED by something we need to leave in someone else’s capable HANDS. WHEN WE GET ANGRY ABOUT WHAT WE CANNOT CHANGE BUT TRULY DESIRE TO (when we feel that we can do nothing for the suffering of another, that is when we are most vocal with God in prayer).

I came home from a trip out on the town to find my daughter furious and channeling an endangered animal.  This abused dog or cat instinctually connected with my furry child.  My child was put up for adoption when she was 2-3 months old and the winter holidays are tough reminder periods of being left behind when her caregiver went into the witness protection program.  We brought her home about four months later and she craved family so much that she was full of hope.  I wasn’t use to experiencing the full heart energy that reflects her future step-dad’s love but my child was so afraid of abandonment that she was clingy, and overly ambitious in pursuit of my favorable compassion.

  • To my child, I am a redeemer; To my husband, I am a voice for our love; To my son’s dad, I am the one he doesn’t feel worthy of; To me, I am the selfless giver who sometimes feels discouraged.
  • Using your emotions effectively can only happened when you don’t feel overwhelmed by them. Anger isn’t enough to advocate for a worthy cause without the courage to act on that requested action.
  • Knowledge is as important to the fight as knowing how much you can involve yourself in the cause. Knowledge is as important to the fight as knowing how much you can invest of yourself in the cause.
  • We need to change how the world sees the problem and find ways to reduce the number of factors that make it possible. Until you know how big the problem is you cannot comfort an anxious or grieving child. 
  • To make a real difference, we need a plan to reduce the suffering, people willing to join in, and a long-term commitment to effective change. Real change is not just a Band-Aid on a scrapped knee; it’s a means of reducing the chances of a scraped knee in the first place.

TODAY OR IN THE NEXT WEEK:

CLARIFY THE BIG PICTURE OF WHAT THIS ISSUE OF SORROW AND SUFFERING IS ALL ABOUT BECAUSE TO MAKE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE, WE MUST REDUCE THE SUFFERING IN THE COMMUNITIES OF THE WORLD (NOT JUST SLAP A BANDAIDE ON IT). CONSIDER HELPING US BY TAKING STEPS TO FIX THE ISSUE BY HELPING POLITICAL FORCES SEE IT CLEARLY AS THEY RUN FOR POLITICAL OFFICE. 

  1. LOOK UP THE ASPCA CHARITY (WWW.ASPCA.ORG)
  2. LOOK UP THE HAWS PAGE (HTTP://HAWSPETS.ORG)
  3. LOOK UP THE HUMANE SOCIETY (WWW.WIHUMANE.ORG)

SEARCH GIVE-AS- YOU-LIVE (FOR CHARITIES) ANIMAL CASE STUDIES

  • GIVE AS YOU LIVE (FOR CHARITIES): LINK AND MICROSOFT EDGE EXTENSION
  • HTTP://WORKWITHUS.GIVEASYOULIVE.COM/CASESTUDIES

LEARN ABOUT WHAT MY ISSYBELLA SEES AS A FLAW IN THE WORLD BECAUSE SOMETIMES THERE IS SOMETHING WE CAN DO ABOUT IT. ALL SHE WANTS FROM ME IS TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT AND I AM NOT SURE I CAN WITHOUT YOUR HELP. LOOK INTO ANIMAL RESCUE CHARITIES AND CAUSES BECAUSE WHEN WE WORRY, THE GOOD PEOPLE ACT ON OUR BEHALF TO REDUCE OUR SENSE OF ANXIETY. THIS MAKES US SEEM ALL POWERFUL AND ABLE TO FIX WHAT OUR CHILD SEE AS WRONG WITH THE WORLD.  EVEN GOD GETS MOTIVATED BY THE SORROW AND SUFFERING OF HIS CREATURES.

 

 

 

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the holidays are upon us

We take so much time supporting capitalism.  Sure, getting Christmas money gives me a chance to spend some money on somewhat frivolous items. The Christmas money tradition began because I am hard to give gifts to. The whole year you try to the most out of the money you do have and its never enough to cover everything you desire (sometimes not even what you need).  A budget is necessary and low-cost options are preferred.  Then, the holidays come and you have a few hundred extra to spend with the restriction that you give none of it to charity.  maybe my boyfriend has it right.

just this advent: give to charity (8 times in four weeks) – here is just a suggested plan

take a walk through the neighborhood to look at decorations

week one: think of two small concerns

  • pray for the two causes
  • donate money or time
  • find time to decorate the door or outdoor
  • be open-minded to making a small change

week two: think of two moderate concerns

  • pray for the two causes
  • donate money or time
  • write a Christmas or holiday letter
  • prepare a cards list and buy stamps

week three: give money or time to two high concerns

  • pray for the two causes
  • donate money or time
  • decorate your home
  • curl up with a holiday movie

week four: give money or time to two personal concerns

  • pray for the two causes
  • donate money or time
  • buy a few hand-selected gifts
  • make cookies, candies, or nuts

Christmastime and other holidays:

  1. pick a tradition (open the stockings)
  2. spend time with a loved one
  3. watch the Christmas parade
  4. watch the Disney special
  5. celebrate a cultural history
  6. cookie plate and snacks
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thwarting identity threats

One of our most connected allies was the target of a Russian named transgendered Igor who pretended to be my husband because he was well connected around the world for the father of lies.  When he couldn’t break into my storage unit anymore, he killed his lover when we thwarted his attempt to steal personal information to pass it on to a psychotic serial killer that didn’t have connection in our building but managed to get through the security doors anyway.  I moved after cutting all ties this murderous Russian that sent Carol Ann Peterson after Pat Krebs who sometimes seems like a seven pound weakling when it comes to prosecuting her for rape.  Pat called the CA psychics and got himself connected to a guy with such darkness that even his coworkers wondered how he could get that job. Carol Ann Peterson, a lawyer, already tried to create unenforceable illegal precedence in the court system of  Wisconsin that my counselors never enforced. Because of her previous actions as a teen, my long-term and short-term memory was compromised as a complication to PTSD. In 1998, I was attending classes I wasn’t taking and my husband’s official murderer is a member of my graduating class.  He committed a crime to find out where my parents live and my classmate still put him on the five year reunion list.  I cannot go to a reunion for that graduation class because if I do, I probably won’t live through it but face it, this is only 20% of what’s impacting my health spiritually.  If the purpose of drowning my spouse was to break what was left of my sanity so they could get away with it,  then the Russian was on their payroll and even as a phantom he is still popping out of hell to put me in crisis every three months. I don’t have a boyfriend or spouse named Igor and he shouldn’t have been allowed to check my bank account illegally. Much less find me when I went into hiding at my current location. Alive or dead, he is still stalking me but regardless of how many times I scream, only 25% of the fans that wrote Paul in Portugal were accurate rather than just lying gossips.  I guess that means that 75% of my fan base doesn’t know me well enough to be accurate and the other 25% are my current social system.

  • My husband made a great point a few days ago – “save the ones you can and forget the rest because the rest don’t want your mercy or compassion anyway. “

Call to action:

It is hard to fight a social war that is familial for your friends and social for you.  Family wasn’t my problem, most of my friends were.  The Pope just wrote a book called the Name of God is Mercy where he points out that offering too much mercy for corruption is a matter of the mind rather than the heart. You cannot sacrifice your spouse to show mercy to his killers because they are the ones who martyred him not you.  And we all know what the martyrs in the Biblical Book of Revelations did.

 

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cutting the main benefit of work

With the government shutdown, essential personnel still have a job but the main benefit of working was not applied.  Our country maintains safer boarders and communities because of these workers not despite them.  I told the wife of a soldier I was angry at the current president.  A kinsman of my husband’s is a cop who like the armed forces are not being paid for their employed status. This millennium is not under the thumb of the devil.  His time is up and even if I make money doing what I am already good at, I hate the idea being the primary breadwinner of my marriage.  Our plans for a secure household just went up in smoke because the breadwinner is an essential government employee that isn’t being  compensated for a hard day’s work.  Is ranting about injustice a mental disorder or did a economic businessman forget that the economy is stable because making money means having the ability to spend it?  His argument is that honor deserves benefits and bad behavior shouldn’t be rewarded. Okay, maybe it shouldn’t but not all essential government security positions are being held by dishonorable people. What about them? Should they be punished for the actions and words of the dishonorable ones.

  • I married to unify soldiers and emergency personal because I was afraid of a bad environment. The casualties of having spiritual values could be the murder of a faithful man with a humanitarian heart and the wise girl with an adventurous spirit. Both conservative favored by God and determined to improve the world where things like this could happen. I grew up to give meaning to his death by speaking out against the injustice of being the surviving spouse of a martyr with a bright scientific mind and promising future.

call to action: CREATING A MORE HONORABLE PROTECTIVE PRESERVATION FORCE IS ALMOST TOO BIG A GOAL TO ACCOMPLISH IN JUST FOUR YEARS BECAUSE EVEN IN OBAMA PRESIDENCE THERE WERE ECONOMIC PROBLEMS RELATED TO GREED.

  1. HE COULD HAVE BEEN MORE THAT MY MUSE – HE COULD HAVE BEEN A DOCTOR, LAWYER, ASTRONAUT, BODYGUARD OR ENTREPENUER AND I AM THE ONE HE DIED PROTECTING FROM A WORSER FATE THAN FINANCIAL RUIN. WE LIVED IN DARK TIMES BUT I SURIVIVED TO WRITE ABOUT IT. HIS FATHER A POLICE DETECTIVE DIED IN THE LINE OF DUTY AND HIS MOTHER A DISHONORABLE PSYCHOLIGIST SURVIVED.
  2. HONORABLE INTERGRITY IS GREAT IDEA IN THEORY BUT DETERMINING WHO IS EXHIBITING THESE TRAITS IS ALMOST TOO MASSIVE AN UNDERTAKING TO BE REALISTIC. WE DON’T LIVE A STAR TREK WORLD (MONEY MAKES OUR ECONOMY WORK). IDEALS ARE GREAT BUT ENFORCING THEM IS DIFFICULT AND I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO DO IT MOST OF MY LIFE.

Flood the president with phone calls and letters (to get him to work harder not just smarter)

 

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the criminals you don’t see coming

Serial killers blend in with their focused prey demographics.  No one would expect such a person to attend our churches, and be active in ministries. These killers give off a attitude of trustworthiness and when they don’t, they seem emotionally stoic. Should we anticipate issues when facing emotionless power?  If you ask a widow or widower, if they wish time could indeed stand still – they’ll say emphatically – yes I wish it could. Serial killer seem normal and when they are predictable, they become a threat to our families and children.  Imagine being aware of approaching danger meant the sudden death of a loved one was preventable.  Would you save someone from death if you could? Would you prevent the damage of a sexual crime from endangering families and friends? A serial killer preys on his type and then finds a way to not get caught when their pray is left for dead. If you tell the prey that they are endangered as a preventive measure, can you prevent a killer from succeeding by killing someone else? The people who can change the world are the ones who could pick out the criminals you don’t see coming.

call to action:   I often attempt to create the ideal and use it to believe people I cannot identify by name will probably avoid killing me because the criminals you don’t see coming believe the lies they tell about the death they caused. What would you do if you could foresee your own death? Would avoid the event or go to prevent the death of someone you love? Could you die for the one you love because most people can’t? Is death a choice or a spiritual war because until you see danger, it doesn’t exist.

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the undeniable problem with Latino males

Macho dishonorable criminally sexual deviants with ties to trafficking rings describes my worst encounter with Latino men.  These sexual careless male often promote sexual exploitation or at the vary least infidelity.  Every time I meet one I hold my breathe for 15 seconds – a minute expecting to be victimized by a faithless Hispanic man. Latino men restrict the sexual behavior of their daughters and promote faithless sexual conduct even as married men.

  • The most severe of these attacks on women is an act of incest with a daughter who developed severe depression and a disgusted mother of three divorced this Spaniard over their child’s medical treatment costs. This daughter is not the only victim of the rape culture of Latino males.
  • In Madrid Spain, a tour guide drugged his own drink and asked me if I wanted a sip – he wasn’t suppose to be drinking on the job but after 10 days of trying to get me to drink drugged alcohol he got me to take a sip of the huricane drink he didn’t even take a sip of. A half an hour to 45 minutes later the small amount of drugs in my system from that sip left me immobile in a hotel room as a traveler and that was where God hid me while my passport was seized with the intention of trafficking me to another Latino country in South America.

This trip was my high school graduation present from my parents and the dual criminal intended rape-trafficking perp was never punish for his attempt on my security.  Last time I ran into him he was not only in Wisconsin but in my neighborhood.

  1. I have yet to meet a Latino male  who doesn’t fit the stereotype of faithless Latino male rape culture.  I would love to be wrong but as of yet I haven’t been.
  2. Maybe it isn’t a stereotype at all but a factor of being a Hispanic male anywhere in the world. When do these men get punished for being responsible for their faithless rape of defenseless female travelers, family, and one-sided affairs that are not consentual acts at all.

Is there a correlation between the rape culture of men and Latino racial category like that which I am calling a fact of nature?

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